Hello hello, I am Brandon.
So about two years ago i was in a catastrophic car crash, and I damaged my knees, hips etc. I was essentially bed ridden while waiting for surgery for a year, and ive been in recovery and physical therapy ever since. I am now getting back to my old self, but with an extra 100 lbs on me.
Now, I have been hitting the gym for the past couple months, and have lost 15 lbs, I want to loose it slow to prevent extra skin/ and to just loose it in a manageable and healthy way.
I am well on my way to loosing the weight, but it will take 1 to 1.5 years to loose the weight in a healthy way, so i will still be a fat fuck for a considerable amount of time. The women i am attracted to and interested in are presently out of my league because of my weight, the question is, do I keep on going after them (and possibly get the rep of being "the creepy fat dude/ embarrass myself) or do I wait until I loose the weight?
P.S. I dont want to settle, not an option
Hey!
Sorry about your accident! That's terrible, I'm glad you're getting better though!
I suggest just waiting until you lose all your weight or until you get to a weight that is good for you. A secret to getting with hot girls though is to make friends with one of them now while you're fatter than you'd like so then when you're back to your normal self you can see her out with her friends and it's an automatic in when you go talk to her because all the other girls will wonder who you are and why their friend is talking to you. Keep the friendship casual though because if she says you're her best friend then none of them will wanna get near that situation! Girl code(:
Don't settle ever there is always going to be someone out there to love you! It just takes some time to find the one that's perfect and there are always speed bumps along the way and this is just one of them(: You'll get there! Don't worry!
~Sarah
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