A friend of mine (whom i very much like) told me shes getting married, BUT shes a high school senior, and so is her fiance. Recently she told me they are having problems and so i offered to help (im too nice i know) but even though i like her, i want her to be happy with this guy anyway. any advice i could give her to help her smooth things out? We live in pretty much the boonies (lol) but she says her parents are strict (she has a stepdad and her real one passed away) and this guy didnt ask her stepdad to marry her (apparently her parents are tradiditonal (not amish traditional though) ) ANY advice is appreciated guys, thanks.
All I can think of for advice is that's way to early for getting married, the fact that they're having problems kind of reflects that. I mean if she was my friend I'd say that it was a really stupid decision, but it sounds like your not quite as much of a dick as I am haha. I can almost promise you it won't work out, but good for them if they can. I don't think there's much you can do to help. I don't think this comment helped but, that's my ANY advice. Sorry! :P
I think you honestly need to tell her that you don't think getting married is a good idea right now because they're having problems. If you don't want to start drama with her then don't say they shouldn't get married ever, even if that's your opinion. Just tell her you don't want to see her get hurt and think that maybe they should hold off on getting married for a while because it could hurt them more than help them if they're having problems right now!
Do you know when they're planning on getting married?
Also, are they in love or could she be pregnant or something?
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