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A situation... advice much appreciated!
  • pinkpink July 2011

    Kind of a long story. Bare with me.
    I recently went to the beach with a bunch of friends and people i didnt know too well. I'd recently met this guy named Dylan, and we had been flirting a little before this trip. The trip was five days and we progressively got closer and flirtier. (i.e. playing chicken in the pool, hugging, joking around) but nothing too serious. Then on the 12 hour bus ride home, he came over away from his group of guys to sit next to me. He was all over me, and all of my friends agreed. He said stuff like how I was beautiful, how i was the coolest girl he knew, and then as it got kind of later and i said i was tired he told me to sleep on his shoulder, and he put his head on mine when he thought i was asleep, rubbed my head, and put his arm around me. Then when we were just talking he casually mentioned that he had gone to his GIRLFRIENDS party that friday. I was extremely shocked that he had a girlfriend based on his behavior. Then he gave me his number and told me to call him the next day since he really wanted to hang out with me. This was two days ago and i havent called him yet since I'm not sure how to act. I really like this guy, and i'm pretty positive hes into me, but i dont want him to cheat on his girlfriend. To be honest, yes, I want them to break up, but i dont condone cheating at all. what should i do if i want him for myself without overstepping?
    thanks
    pink <3

    california gurl thru and thru <3
  • BruinBall28 July 2011

    I know he gave you a lot of attention and has a gf. Probably means he cares little for his girl. He may have done this before but I do not know that. This shouldn't take away from who you are but he's a dick for doing this behind his girls back. You can pursue if you want but I say shit is not worth it

  • coosie July 2011

    Move on. period.

  • Ananny July 2011

    If he's doing that to her, then chances are he'll do that to you
    so basically move on

  • JonJon July 2011

    I'm going to bring the opposite approach here. Perhaps he has a girlfriend, perhaps he doesn't care for her, and perhaps he plans to break up with her. I say pursue, based on the fact that he might have been planning to dump her. If tries something on you, and you know for a fact that he still has a girlfriend, then let him have it. Or hell just ask him why he was doing this if he has a GF. Because there's really only three responses, he either tells you he is going to break up with her, he tells you he's going to cheat on her, or the wild card response of getting pissed that you asked, feels you are being a stalker, or he manages to dodge it somehow (in which case don't let him). From that you will find one of two things about him. He is A: Trapped in a relationship he is willing to get out of for you. Or B: He's a dick for many possible ways and you should move on. You can't assume he does that to all girls though, maybe he does but, there's two sides to everything.

    Jon G, who gets with all his cousin's hot friends :P -Rhode Island
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