First thing... if you're in college you should know it's spelled with an "e" not an "a" just a tip(; haha

Second... you better break up with your girlfriend IMMEDIATELY... if you're thinking about another girl this way and wanting to get close to her and stuff you need to not hurt your current girlfriend any longer. And cheating is anything you'd be embarrassed for you girlfriend to catch you doing... so you weren't specific what you were doing with this girl, but according to my standards and rules at least, you may already be cheating.

She might just be being a respectful person and not getting to into stuff with you because you do have a girlfriend. She sounds like she's just flirting with you and girls like to be texted first... it's almost a way we judge if a guy actually likes us or just fooling around. Texting a girl first shows you want to talk to her and you're putting out the effort. If it bugs you that much then try not texting her for a whole day and see what happens.

If you honestly want to know what she thinks of you... you're going to have to ask her. You didn't make it clear if you wanted to go out with her... so if you do then you need to take a chance and find out the situation between the two of you. If you don't care and just want to be friends then problem solved, just don't worry about it. (:

Good luck!
~Sarah

Thank you!

I broke up with my girlfriend yesterday. Feeling kind of sad but happy at the same time.

So what should i do next......

I feel like i am getting into friend zone with this girl B. I don't know how to tell her I broke up with my girlfriend already and start chasing her.

I don't want her to feel like I break up with my girlfriend just to chase her because there has always been a problem with my girlfriend.

Does girl B know you had a girlfriend to start off with?

She knows I have a girlfriend but girlB doesn't know i just broke up with my girlfriend.
I wanted to let her know that i broke up already but I don't want to give her a sense that I am breaking up with my girlfriend just to chase girl B.

Maybe just lightly mention you broke up with your girlfriend. Like next time you see girl B ask her how she is, she'll probably ask you the same, and just say "I'm alright, except i feel kind of bad for *exgirlfriend*. We broke up and she's taking it kind of rough". thats about as casually as it can come up.
As for the texting thing, dont think too much of it. Girls never like to text first and as long as you dont text her every second she probably doesnt mind that you text first. Its probably at the point where she expects you to text her first so she doesnt think she has to.
Shes probably holding back because only bitches try to steal other girls boyfriends haha it's just not polite. she thinks you like the other girl obviously since you were dating. Now that youre not give her a week or so to start warming up and make sure she knows youre not still interested in your ex. unless you are. in which case youre in no shape to go after anybody.
maybe in two weeks ask her out. thats enough time for her not to feel like a rebound and for her to start looking at you differently.
hope this helps!
xoxo

thank you.

I need some follow up help lol.

So i told her that i broke up with my ex yesterday.

But recently she has been acting kind of weird to me. I don't get to see her that often so we usually text a lot. But recently she stop replying my text all the sudden. All i get was like yes or no answers.

does that mean she has no interested in me anymore.

So I meet up with her today for a school project. She seems to be less "close" to me compare to before.

One of my group mate asked her if she likes me. And she said I am too young for her ( she is 2 years older than me). And then she never feels that i like her at all.
my group mate told me afterwards.

And then after group meeting i went dinner with her alone together at red robins.

I don't know I feel confused right now.

What should i do next?

Maybe she is just in a different place than she was a few weeks or months ago. She may be realizing that you're just not the right guy for her. She's making excuses why it won't work out between the two of you... even though to you it doesn't seem like 2 years is that much, when you're the older one in the relationship it feels weird... Even if it's just a year difference you feel like you're on a way different level than the other person. That does get better with age like 49 and 47 year olds are way more alike then say 21 and 19.

If you really want to know though then you just need to talk to her. Ask her if she's still into you because you'd really like to take her out and if she says no then you're done. Move on to the next girl... everything will get better!

~Sarah

ok thx

but what if i am really into her and i don't want to give up just like this?

You need to make a move first. She's not going to make the first move because it makes her feel like a slut or less of a woman. Women like to be sought after. You need to ask her out formally on a date. It sounds like so far all you've been doing is hoping that she will pounce on you passively.

You are right.

Things are happening between me and her now. and i am super confused.

So she recently got injured on her forehead. I went to visit her and stayed with her for a day. We kind of cuddle a bit on the bed.

And the next day we were working on school project together for like 30 hours together.

She slept on my lap for like an hour or so and then she slept on my chest for like another hour. we were holding hands and cuddling together.

After she wakes up, I was sleeping on her back.

After handing in our project. I went to her hours and we slept for like another hour. We were in the same bed cuddling again.

The next day she said i am a perv and I should never do that again on msn.

So..... what is going on between me and her.

Also, on the same day she was saying that she is not looking for a date for now.
so it makes me even more confused