I don't know why guys like sexting so much, but maybe they are just seeing how far they can push you sexually.

I mean sexting isn't bad, but it can have consequences. Like if you have a professional job and that picture of you gets around... you better believe you will be fired immediately. Also, if you are under the age of 18 it is considered child pornography and if it is found by a school administrator at most schools it is taken VERY seriously even if the other participant is also under 18. You have to register as a sex offender (My little brother's 14 year old best friend just had to register...)

If you want to keep your dignity then if you think it's wrong it's wrong if you think it's okay it's okay. That's pretty much the bottom line.

~Sarah!

Just never show your face.

EVER.

Ok so I won't say I'm opposed to a dirty text message. But only after three or four texts? Well if you're into it then cool I guess. Its not hard to turn a guy on with dirty talk. Just say what you think a guy would want to hear. Tell him the things you would do to him if he were ther now. Guys want to hear that they are wated and needed and the only possible thing tha will satisfy you is them. But if you don't feel right doing it then don't. Do it. Sarah is right its a way to push sex on you without having to do much.

1. Huh? Because sexting, in theory, leads directly to sex, do not pass go, do not collect $200 in STD screenings. And guys, being human, suffer madly the will to fuck. This is opaque?
2. That your very next text will include a juicy shot of your thighs, and sorry for wasting his time with tedious words. (Newsflash: Men are visual creatures.)
3. Abandon the Victorian prudery you brought up with. While we’re at it, “random hookups here and there” are, pretty much, mainstreet, Slutville USA. Get some agency; own your sexuality. Stop giving a damn what is or isn’t dignified and just engage. Sex is fun, sex is healthy, slutting it up, even and especially by sexting, is all the rage.

So? In short: Don’t bother with words, and don’t worry what others might think. Snap off a tight shot of, say, your ass with a thumb hitched in your Victoria Secrets, as though you were about to slide them off, and any fella worth his salt will get the picture. As it were. (Any that don't are better off tossed back in the sea.)

Two things: One: Keep in mind that sexting WILL invariably invite a cock shot in return. Which is just bad form, since, historically, women are NOT visual creatures. (Guys? Are you listening?)

Two: WAIT until you are at least 18. Federal pornography laws, as written, CAN BE READ as to indict the underage sexter as a sexual offender. Google that shit. Minors ARE being arrested and arraigned under federal stature. Yes, it’s a twisted world we live in…

Wow!

What I feel lke Well_Dilligaf is trying to say is... just be a slut and don't care what people think...

Sooooooo wrong!!
Ladies out there don't listen to this for one single minute. Take care of yourself first and don't let stupid people tell you that it isn't a big deal to just drop your pants for any guy who walks along.

Sex is fun, sex is healthy... but you should never be doing it because it is all the rage! Pregnant 16 year olds will say all their friends do it... this is what everyone says but just because everyone does it doesn't mean it's cool. Make sure you have feelings for someone before you do stuff like this. Just like guys are visual creatures girls are very emotional creatures. That means it is much easier to emotionally hurt them by degrading them and telling them it is okay to just be a slut.

Why do you think we have so many girls that are pregnant, prostituting, etc? It's because we live in a world where men feel that it's totally cool to degrade the woman they are with. It doesn't matter how she feels... she's just a girl. This is so wrong and it really needs to stop. Women are beautiful and men would be so lost without them, so try to treat them with a little dignity.

Ladies pick your head up because one day you're going to meet an amazing man and you'll have an STD or something will have happened as an affect of your "slutting it up" then you'll end up on a forum wishing that you hadn't done that stuff.

It's cool to have fun, but don't live like tomorrow will never come because in reality you'll probably have 50+ years to live with your mistakes... not so fun...

So, sorry for my tangent... but this stuff really gets me mad. Please don't degrade women respect their feelings and show them as a person a little respect... asking for nude pictures right away is so rude and so wrong... try getting to know someone first!

love ya all(:
~Sarah!

It's always exciting for guys when light flirting turns to dirty talk. However unless you already made out a bit at the club or a party when you first met, I don't see how the first few texts immediately jumping to hot pics and sexts can be considered appropriate. Some guy going, "Hey, great seeing you in class today. Let me see your tits," is just as rude in text as it would be in person. Or maybe I'm just old fashioned.

If you just want a random hook up, then I guess it's no big deal. If you actually want to connect with a guy and have a shot at a meaningful relationship, then ignore the ones pushing sex within the first few minutes, because all they want is that random hook up.

Sexting is whatever to me. Last girl I talked to would willingly send me some pictures, I never asked... It usually would start out just with us basically saying how we wish we could be having sex right then. Sometimes she would just send a picture of herself, nothing fancy or "sexy" just her face (always appreciated if you ask me) and every once in a while it would be a little "dirtier"

What I really don't get are the "sexting" literal text messages... She literally told me I sucked at sexting... and it's true... I have no idea what to say... and for pictures as a guy idk what's a sexy picture to a girl.

That being said I think it's weird a guy asks for them... especially early. Even if I would ask I'd wait until I felt the girl would be comfortable with our relationship... But I don't ask and I feel that's better, if a girl wants to I'll gladly accept and will get excited.. if she doesn't then that's fine... sometimes it sucks to get all worked up when you can't physically be with the person.

2) if you wanna know what a guy wants to hear it can be anything sex related really. Girls tend to tell me what they want me to do to them etc... usually the more specific the more sexy.

3) if you ask me partaking doesn't take away from your dignity if you are wanting to do it, don't do it just because a guy asks. If you don't wanna, simply don't. tell him you're not into that and if that's a deal breaker I feel you're not losing out on much. but to keep your dignity and do it... just don't sound to easy, don't send like full on nudes right away or anything... just keep it simple... send cute pictures of yourself or something. basically just treat it as you would a real interaction I guess and go from there (makes sense for me.. I'm not a good sexter and I'm no dirty talker or anything like that)

hope this helps out